How to ruin your life in 17 steps

1. Virtual social interaction and withdrawal encourage a false identity, seeking attention and approval. 2. Bullying, tragedy, drama and assault develop a hypervigilant, survivalistic state of fear. 3. They learn to create a false identity and seek validation through superficiality. 4. In preteen/adolescence days, politics enable them to release their frustration by societal blame, discrimination and identify as anything that justifies their victim state. 5. They are taught they are special in school, then as responsibilities grow beyond their habits and realize they aren’t so special they are CRUSHED. 5.1 Number 5 explains 4. 6. They are either neglected, controlled or infantilized, then don’t know to be assertive or self-reliant without fearing they will never be worth it. 7. They fear to become alone since all their ego depends on validation. 8. Their communities and schools are threatened, and most survive in traumatic households. 9. All entertainment for escaping your own responsibilities and craving temporary pleasures from the pain, and suicide counts. 10. Being sick and no one believing or helping you, or being sickened further. Hiding all your problems because no one cares. 11. You are not allowed to say no or contradict the consensus. 12. The value of your supply defines yours.
13. You are told what is best for you when you subconsciously or consciously know better, leading you to dissociate from your instinct.
14. Believing you're the only sane one. (Walking Dead syndrome)
15. Acknowledging you have been living in a system that illusions a fake world where everyone is here only to suffer, and that unworthiness, hierarchy and sabotaging is normal, healthy, and unavoidable; therefore it does not matter whatever you do, and life has 'no meaning'.
16. Victim vs bully.
17. Escaping life or dissociating to avoid all the suffering.
Narcissism is a SOCIAL SYSTEM, not an individual trait. The absolute system to prevent your happiness and the happiness of everyone else for LIFE AND BEYOND YOUR DEATH.